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Ismatul Izzah
Candra Indraswari
Iqbal Ardhy Latansa
Abstract
Spirituality is an important factor contributing to family resilience. One form of spiritual practice that continues to be evolve in contemporary society is the Tarekat, a community that represents the esoteric dimension of Islam, namely Sufism. This study aims to describe family resilience among couples practicing tarekat. The method used is qualitative with a phenomenological approach. The informants were 4 couples selected using purposive and snowball sampling techniques based on predetermined criteria. Data collection utilized semi-structured interviews and thematic analysis. The findings identified 5 main themes: the transcendence of marital meaning based on sufistic values within the couple's relationship; dzikir and the mursyid's counsel as religious coping; the mursyid and tarekat community as sources of support; the subjugation of the ego and effective dialogical communication; and psychological and financial resilience through an attitude of legowo (sincere acceptance). These findings indicate the transformation of ego-consciousness into divine consciousness within the family. Spiritual practices, the mursyid’s guidance, and adherence to sufistic values serve as the primary drivers in reconstructing the couple's relationship, subjugating the personal ego, managing conflict and communication, and building psychological and financial resilience amidst life's challenges to shape family resilience among tarekat practitioners.
Spiritualitas merupakan faktor penting yang berkontribusi terhadap ketahanan keluarga. Salah satu bentuk praktik spiritual yang berkembang sampai saat ini adalah tarekat sebagai komunitas yang merepresentasikan dimensi esoterik dalam islam yaitu tasawuf. Penelitian ini bertujuan mendeskripsikan ketahanan keluarga pada pasangan pengamal tarekat. Metode yang digunakan adalah kualitatif dengan pendekatan fenomenologi. Informan penelitian adalah 4 pasangan yang ditentukan menggunakan teknik purposive dan snowball sampling berdasarkan kriteria yang ditetapkan. Pengambilan data menggunakan wawancara semi terstruktur dan analisis tematik. Hasil penelitian mengidentifikasi 5 tema utama yaitu transendensi makna pernikahan berbasis nilai sufistik dalam relasi pasangan, dzikir dan nasehat mursyid sebagai koping religius, mursyid dan komunitas tarekat sebagai sumber dukungan, penundukan ego dan komunikasi dialogis efektif, resilensi psikologis dan finansial melalui sikap legowo. Temuan ini menunjukkan transformasi kesadaran ego menjadi kesadaran ilahiah dalam keluarga. Amalan spiritual, bimbingan mursyid, dan ketaatan nilai sufistik menjadi penggerak utama memaknai ulang relasi pasangan, menundukkan ego personal, mengelola konflik dan komunikasi, serta membentuk resiliensi psikologis dan finansial di tengah tantangan kehidupan guna membentuk ketahanan keluarga pengamal tarekat.
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